How long demi and ashton married

Moore also admitted that she tried to be the perfect wife to Kutcher by agreeing to whatever he wanted. She said he requested threesomes with her during their marriage, and she obliged.

However, Moore said she soon learned that Kutcher used the threesomes as an excuse to cheat on her. His infidelity ultimately ended their marriage in Moore filed for divorce from Kutcher in after six years of marriage.

The couple finalized their divorce in We were totally in sync from our very first conversation. As Moore admits, they were in two totally different stages in life. But when we met, I had the experience and the preparation to be really committed. It feels like your child has died. I was decimated. I shifted into survival mode… Ashton did his best to connect with me in my grief. His possibilities were not running out, far from it. I was suddenly acutely aware that mine were.

But my ego was attached to having a biological child I carried. Intellectually, I knew that one can connect with a baby on the deepest level without carrying her. But emotionally, I wanted to have that experience with Ashton. Just as I wanted to be the carefree girl who could have a casual drink, I wanted to be the fertile woman who could have his baby. Ashton carried me back to our bed and he was furious. To some extent, I understand his reaction. But it was also confusing: Ashton had encouraged me to go in this direction.

It seemed like a goo- natured joke at the time. But it was really just shaming. I wanted to show him how great and fun I could be. At 40, Moore met Ashton Kutcher, a young actor and entrepreneur who was just 25 years old at the time. In her new book, the actress described the ease and electricity she felt with Kutcher and why she was ready to take a chance with him.

I just felt like a year-old girl hoping somebody liked me. Moore said she thought she had been "responsible for so much of my life, and all of a sudden this window opened up where I was safe. He seemed to be comfortable with the enormity of the ex-husband. I mean, you know, I felt like I was not coming with baggage, I had trunks," she recalled. Moore pointed out that her ex-husband remarried a woman 23 years his junior and no one said a word.

As for those who were shocked at the age gap between Moore and Kutcher, Moore said, "I don't know. It's so silly. Two years into her relationship Moore found out she was pregnant, but received crushing news "at almost six months" during a checkup.